I wish there was a campaign in India "bharat ko betiyo ke liye behtar banao."

There are so many set of rules for girls whereas boys have only 2 rules secure a good job and earn living.
Girls  are accepted to be caring boys can be rude if they are caring they have got extra edge.

Girls need to be educated and beautiful,  looks doesn't matter as far as boys are concerned . They can easily enjoy food and get fat as much as they want, girls on the other hand should control their weight. Surprisingly girls control their weight to secure a man and his love. And what do boys do they just earn to secure a girl& her love. Definitely there are health issues related with gaining weight but what works as a motivating factor for girls she won't look sexy, she won't be able to wear nice dresses, no boy will marry her if she gains weight etc..and for boys only motivating factor is their health that too works in his 30s.

Girl cannot have any boyfriend else it's a prestige issue for the family. Boys can have girlfriends without bringing a Shame to the family. 

Girl must be educated but she should earn less then his male partner just to pacify his ego. She should always be ready to give up her career or adjust her job postings according to his convenience.
She is always expected to maintain family dignity both being married and unmarried. She should not go/work late at nights boys have all the freedom.
If girl watches porn/adult stuff or have sexual desire she is considered a bad girl. Whereas boys have copywrite over such desires. Why she isn't adult or she isn't a human being?

She should be able to manage both house and work. While boys  just have mange their work. They never have to be extra causious when their in-laws are at home. Whereas girl have to get up early,work all day, probably take a leave from office for them and put a smile all day on her face when her in-laws are at home. Because she is a girl she can take any number of leave from her office whereas for boys work is most important even his family and relative comes after work. He should get promoted & for girls being allowed to work itself means promotion.Even when it comes to family planning boys still have to earn to be good father and girl have to take leave or even a break from her work, sit at home get fat, hold all the pain , take care of baby all day and still if she hears the taunt of not handling the home or  baby properly then it's not a big deal. She should be get used to such things being a girl.

Even at office her male counterparts try to overshadow her work. They always try to indulge her in insignificant works. They always try to show her weak in front of boss and if she proves her worth they regard her characterless who must have slept with boss to earn an assignment.
If she talks to males frankly with a smile people regard her as flirt whereas if boy speaks his mind and smile to girls he is considered to be cheerful.

It's very easy to molest a girl and make her shut. And they expect her to be shameful for being molested whereas boy who molestes her takes pride in doing so. People in society consider him brave and fear of such boys. 
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Merit of a girl and her feelings are never counted. Everyone have right to comment about her character, her nature her choices etc.... still India is running a campinge "Beti bacchao ". Yes save a girl child just to let her live a life of humiliation and sacrifices. I wish there was a campaign in India "Bharat ko betiyo ke liye behtar banao."


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